Sefaria Learning from the child who doesn't know how to ask

 Sefaria Learning from the child who doesn't know how to ask

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Dear friend,

As you may know, the Passover Haggadah provides four paradigms for the kinds of children we might encounter on seder night. The first three children pose a distinct question, but the last of the four does not know how to ask. Even for this child, though, the Haggadah provides us with an answer, prompting us to engage with all types of learners:

 
וְשֶׁאֵינוֹ יוֹדֵעַ לִשְׁאוֹל – אַתְּ פְּתַח לוֹ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר, וְהִגַּדְתָּ לְבִנְךָ בַּיּוֹם הַהוּא לֵאמֹר, בַּעֲבוּר זֶה עָשָׂה ה' לִי בְּצֵאתִי מִמִּצְרָיִם.
And [regarding] the one who doesn't know to ask, you will open [the conversation] for him. As it is stated (Exodus 13:8), "And you will speak to your son on that day saying, for the sake of this did the Lord do [this] for me in my going out of Egypt."
Passover Haggadah
 

Explaining this further, Rabbi Zedekiah ben Avraham Anav writes in his 13th-century Haggadah commentary Shibbolei Haleket: "Construct an opening for them, so that they will understand and ask."

It is hard to formulate a question until you have a certain amount of understanding, some solid footing from which to start. When we construct openings into learning, we enable pathways for people to enter.

But how do we create those openings? The answer, the Haggadah tells us, is to share a story that is personal —  I was taken out of Egypt; this is what happened to me. By creating a sense of connection, we invite one who does not know how to ask into the conversation.

This sense of opening and individual connection is core to the Passover experience. At the beginning of the seder, we say: "Let all who are hungry come and eat." Towards the end of the seder, we open the door of our home and invite Elijah the Prophet to join us. And in between, the story of the four children shows us how to extend the open door to all.

Everyone inevitably comes up against walls in their learning — even the chacham, the wise child, and even the parent, who in this text is the source of wisdom. No matter how much we know, at some point we encounter a word, a teaching, or an idea that we don't understand, and we search for a way forward.

Our goal at Sefaria is to provide those next steps, the openings, the road markers that show where there's a way forward. And not only that, but we hope that the library can be a tool for you to create openings for others.

Whatever your pathway and whatever kind of doorway you are looking for, we welcome you in and thank you for being here. Together, may we have a meaningful Passover filled with questions and answers that make up the great Jewish conversation.

Chag Pesach Sameach,

Sara Wolkenfeld Sara Wolkenfeld
Chief Learning Officer
 
 
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